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A call from my biological mother

Added by Ken on April 4
My biological mother just called me. She wanted to know if I had struggled with reactive attachment disorder. I explained that I had some attachment issues that created distress for me in my younger life but that by my mid-twenties I felt I had worked through that. She listened to me intently. I could feel her brow furrow as she concentrated on my words over the phone. I finished my explanation and there was a long pause. From a deeply pained place in her heart, my mom said slowly and ... Read more

As this day of Thanksgiving winds down...

Added by Alex on November 28
Dear CALO Family, Thanksgiving always causes me to hit the pause button and remember that to be thankful for what we have is more fulfilling than recounting what we may want. At CALO we want things, like any company. However, what we have is a great group of families and students to serve, and wonderful coworkers to whom we owe a huge gratitude of thanks. I have many blessings I am thankful for but the most important of them are the people in my life. I am thankful for my family, my dear ... Read more

Advice for CALO Parents - Q&A with CALO Therapist-extraordinaire Cecily Mitchell

Added by Alex on November 18
Advice for CALO Parents - Q&A with CALO Therapist-extraordinaire Cecily Mitchell What are some of the most important things you think if parents understood early on would get parents onboard quicker and improve treatment success? Progress is going to be slow. And there are going to be moments that feel really awesome - don't get your hopes up too much, because the whole two steps forward one step back thing is really true. Our kids get scared of change, even when it feels good and ... Read more

Our Clinical Team is Growing!

Added by Alex on November 10
CALO is excited to announce that Crystal Smith has accepted a promotion and will be the Clinical Supervisor for CALOs Girl Program. Crystal brings with her over 20 years of experience working in a supervisory and leadership capacity in outpatient mental health, residential mental health as well as other areas of the business world. She has expressed a desire to share her experience and skills to benefit the clinical team, the students/families and CALO overall. She is particularly interested ... Read more

CALO Parenting Tips: Becoming a "United Front"

Added by Alex on August 27
Its not uncommon in most households for parents to individually assume the roles of good cop and bad cop. The parent who assumes the role of good cop is the often the one who a teen turns to be soothed or to help them negotiate with the parent who has taken on the role of bad cop and is the main disciplinarian for the household. Teens with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), and/or those who have been unable to form healthy attachments, often become masters of manipulation in order to get ... Read more

Creating Loving Bonds With Transferable Attachment

Added by Alex on August 19
As a parent/caregiver, you know the love you have for child is strong and your attachment to them runs deep. It can be particularly painful to parent a child who is dealing with the after effects of childhood trauma that is causing them to act out in unhealthy ways. A child that has experienced severe emotional and physical abuse in early childhood also has problems bonding to their parents/caregivers. At CALO, we help your teen begin to explore and create loving attachments with our unique ... Read more

Why Doesn't My Child Love Me Back?

Added by Alex on August 15
Parenting a teen with attachment issues can be a challenging experience. Do you ever get the feeling that your teen doesnt love you back? This is a common concern we hear from parents and caregivers at CALO.Teens with attachment issues or Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) have a hard time feeling love, trust or empathy. It can be a frustrating and emotionally draining experience for a parent to constantly feel pushed away or unloved by their own child.One parent described feeling as though, ... Read more

An Adoptive Parent's Letter to Family and Friends

Added by Alex on August 9
Carol, a member of ATN's Board of Directors and is a clinical social worker.by: Carol LozierHave you ever noticed that adopted and foster kids are especially cute? Their beautiful eyes, cute noses, and charming smiles often call attention to them and to their family. In the midst of this attention, adoptive and foster parents often hear remarks of how their parenting could be more effective, or possibly that they are expecting too much or too little from their child. Understandably, ... Read more

Rob Gent's Promotion and New Clinical Director

Added by Alex on August 6
All CALO employees believe in continually sharpening the saw and improving who we are, what we know, and how we interact. Growth, as a matter of fact, is one of our core values. Just as we expect our students and parents to grow, we should expect ourselves to do the same.With Growth in mind, CALO is pleased to announce the promotion of Rob Gent to VP of Training and Development. Over the years Rob has performed key roles at CALO including Therapist, Assistant Clinical Director, and Clinical ... Read more

Redefining Success at CALO

Added by Alex on August 1
Success is measured in terms of self-improvement rather than by triumphs over others. Albert Bandura, David Starr Jordan Professor of Social Science in Psychology / Emeritus at Stanford University Have you ever tried keeping up with the Joneses? Not only is it exhausting, but it can be damaging to your self-esteem.A lot of times in life we define our own level of success by comparing ourselves with others. For example, rich people are deemed successful because they have more money than ... Read more

CALO Sponsors the All Together Now Conference with Heather Forbes

Added by Alex on July 26
CALO recently attended and was the Hero Sponsor for the All Together Now Conference in Lake Ozark, MO. This conference is a collaborative effort of the foster and adoptive support agencies across the state of Missouri to bring together service providers, foster and adoptive families, social workers, lawyers, and judges to promote an atmosphere of cooperative learning and to improve services to abused and neglected children and their families. There were over 300 attendees.Here are some great ... Read more

Safe vs. Unsafe Confrontation

Added by Alex on July 19
What is the collateral damage to children that experience confrontation which is unsafe? The damage is immeasurable. Emotionally and behaviorally children need to experience healthy confrontation which sustains the characteristics of safe parental relationships; consistency, dependability, reliability, predictability, caring, selfless, and loving.When children can feel safe within confrontation, they are able to appropriately assimilate the message being given as well as experience ... Read more

What it Sometimes Takes to Parent a Traumatized Child

Added by Alex on June 7
I have a friend who works with me on an advocacy council. The council is one looking for ways to improve treatment for traumatized children. My friend, Julie, is an attorney and mother of two adopted children. One of the children, a girl named Angie, has a history of abuse prior to placement in Julie's home. Julie and her husband have struggled to help Angie and have suffered setbacks at times. She had a setback just recently and wrote a powerful email describing her sorrow. With her ... Read more

PARENT RETREAT MAY 2013

Added by Rob on March 7
Our Parent Retreat is rapidly approaching and you do not want to miss the opportunity to receive specific training on how best to intervene with your child while creating meaningful and safe experiences.  The Retreat begins on Wednesday afternoon (5:15-7:30pm) where parents will enjoy our Parent Orientation and receive information on the expectations of treatment, clinical model, and ways to be an asset in the treatment journey.  The orientation is a great time to get to know other ... Read more

PARENT SEMINAR - March 1, 2013

Added by Rob on January 11
SEMINAR (March 1st, 2013) PARENT TRAINING      The Parent Seminar is rapidly approaching (March 1st, 2013) and the focus is Parent Training.  This is the perfect opportunity to engage in hands on training exactly the way our staff receive it.  We are excited to have our Residential and Clinical departments combine and provide parents with specific training principles and techniques for creating safety, connection, and repair with your student.  The seminar ... Read more

November Parent Seminar

Added by Calo on October 29
Never let your memories be greater than your dreams On Wednesday November 21, from 12:30-2pm, we will explore what this quote means with regards to CALOs academic department. The presentation will focus on the evolution of CALO academics. We will be discussing the past, present and future of academics at CALO. Highlighting all of the exciting successes happening in the academic department and exploring ideas for the future will be our primary goals. After the presentation, all teachers will ... Read more

UPCOMING PARENT SEMINAR & SUPPORT GROUP (November 21, 2012)

Added by Rob on October 11
Thanksgiving is rapidly approaching and it is a terrific time to be a part of the CALO family and participate in our Parent Seminar and Support Group on Wednesday November 21, 2012.  The Parent Seminar (12:30-2pm) will focus primarily on Academics and how the educational aspect of treatment is integral to the CALO experience.  This time will be a tremendous opportunity to become intimately familiar with the CALO Academic program, it's philosophy, implementation, relevance to ... Read more

Letter from a Parent

Added by Alex on October 5
As Natasha approaches the end of her time at CALO I find myself feeling proud to be able to say that we are part of the CALO family and I can tell you that you will have two advocates should we discover another family who is looking for help for a child struggling with attachment issues. You really are building a much needed, quality program. Hi Landon, It seems like after every parent retreat that I attend I feel a need to drop you a line. This retreat is no different except that most of the ... Read more

Lake News Online: Groundbreaking ushes in new era, facility for Change Academy

Added by Nicole on September 15
Nestled overlooking the Lake of the Ozarks is a residential treatment center that focuses on teen attachment disorder. Because of traumatic circumstances, some teens do not understand what it means to have healthy meaningful relationships. Change Academy Lake of the Ozarks, CALO, aims to help teens realize how to have healthy relationships and transition back into their everyday lives. The program's goal is to be a place that takes care of students who feel broken and to ultimately help them ... Read more

UPCOMING PARENT RETREAT!

Added by Rob on August 16
PARENT RETREAT REMINDER!   The upcoming Fall Parent Retreat is rapidly approaching and we want to make sure that we have you down for attending.  The Retreat begins with the Parent Orientation on September 12th (5:15-7:30pm) where parents engage in a seminar about being a part of the CALO experience.  On the morning of Thursday, September 13th all parents will arrive at CALO for breakfast and an exciting, interactive experience with Persogenics and what type of personality ... Read more

Upcoming Parent Retreat and Orientation (September 12th -14th, 2012)

Added by Rob on June 25
CALO is excited to announce the dates for our upcoming Parent Retreat and Orientation.  Starting on Wednesday September 12th (5:15-7:30pm), we will have our Parent Orientation where new and existing parents gather to develop relationships and experience what it means to be a part of the CALO experience.  This time is filled with extremely helpful program and therapeutic information that is relevant to the student and familys treatment.  Parents arrive at 5:15pm to get acquainted ... Read more

Leadership Visit to Puerto Penasco Orphanage 2012

Added by Ken on June 15
In a July 29, 2011 post on this blog I let you all know about a trip we took to Mexico and some wonderful children in an orphanage there. If you type "orphanage" into the CALO blog search at the top right of the blog page you can find that post easily. Well, as you can see, we got to go back last month and help out again. It was a second, simply amazing experience there. Most of the children are kids we met last time. They remembered us and wanted to play and interact in many of the ... Read more

July 13th - Parent Seminar & Parent Support Group

Added by Rob on May 18
On July 13th we will be hosting our Parent Seminar where we will thoroughly explore our Canine program and the process and impact of Neurofeedback.  In addition to the Parent Seminar, we will facilitate a Parent Support Group to provide opportunity for parents to share and connect with one another.  This is a terrific opportunity to be a part of the CALO experience and become intimately familiar with the program and its specific interventions.  The seminar will delve into the ... Read more

ACT Testing

Added by Calo on May 18
Hello Parents, Would you like your son or daughter to take the ACT?   CALO will be taking students to ACT testing on September 8, 2012. If you are interested and would like to register your child, the registration deadline is August 17th.   Parents may register and pay for their child's ACT testing at www.actstudent.org. You may have the results sent directly to you by choosing "homeschool" rather than inputting a high school code. Please register for the ... Read more

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